14.11.09

Cold Cold Night

Before i start grumbling, wanna say thank you to Anonymous who left me a kind comment that i do not know was for which post. Can't find it already..

I've been thinking a lot recently, about my life, about what i am doing, what am i called to do. Many times i wonder if i am on the right track. I have the answer, but i continue to question myself time and again. I get very uptight with little things, you can't see this sight of me cos its on the inside. There are situations where i make decisions because of what somebody else says. When i have decided for myself, i get affected when he says otherwise. I'm lost..
I wish for wisdom.

12 comments:

flora said...

While you are still young, do what you like, not what someone tell you what to do. This is what my mom told me. its a good thing that my parents doesn't stop me from what I want to do for my career, as long as I can earn enough to feed myself. I did a career switch few years ago, after got stuck in a job that I hate for almost 10 yrs. Its a big decision cos I resign without finding a new job, and leaving the good pay, xing lang job and high position. But I had my parent's support. I took a couple of month of rest before looking for a job that I might like. Now I'm in the industry I always want to be. Even it does not look as pretty as it look from the inside. But I do not regret it, at like I'm happier now, even though I worked day and night. Looking back, sometime I wish I can turn back time to undo decision I made. But whatever it is, there is nothing you can do for the past. 向前看, believe in what you doing now and put your best in, without regret.

huangchi.soh said...

he said those stuffs because they were his opinions on that issue. but everyone's opinions are always changing because of what we experience everyday.

you made that decision because you agree with what he said initially. so do not be shaken by what you have decided because it is what you believe in and thought really carefully over. i'm sure you wouldn't regret it when you think about it again.

so, just believe in what you believe in and trust yourself for it. (:

Anonymous said...

no, you are wrong. you, being uptight with little things can be seen, though inside. but something i must add on is, you'll always solve it calm-ly(:

yes, people do give comments advices. & yes those may affect you in some way.. but afterall, everything lies in your hand. its your life, hence follow your heart. don't be easily shaken by others.. be firm and you'll not be lost. & i'm sure you can do it(:

我相信你不是一个很容易被动摇的人。

angie said...

heyo..did i trigger anything? oops.......acty i'm clueless too...didn't mean anything negative...good and bad acty thr's only a thin line in between...the clarity is up to each individual to make a leap to decide.

in search of self....some time back in church i got a book "why i am afraid to tell u who i am, because when u know who i am u may not like who i am"....it's a small book...yet it got many great poems...i love it to the max...now my fren borrowed it and ain't returning to me :(

i'll search the book for u...thr's a poem in the book says "when i appear naked in front of u; please do not make me feel naked" Wow! outrageous isn't it????!!!

But the truth is, this statement carries so much LOVE! Love of oneself, self-love, how u fall in love with urself...

u hv a great, thoughtful and sweet soul...

Jean said...

i think i felt the same lyk youuuu~! =(

Mel said...

Hey!
Set your objective and work towards it! As long as your decision meets your objective den have faith in your decision. Do not waver just because someone says otherwise. Jiayou! ((:

syl said...

Same here..
Just feel so uncertain abt the decision we have to make in life.
If only there is a trial where we can see the outcome, then we wouldn't be so bothered. Aiye.

th-JESS said...

life is filled with insecurities and everyone tends to get indecisive alot. its just human nature. infact even after 50 years of contributing to a single job, you might then find that you are not suitable for it and decide to change.

people change over time, even their mindset and all changes. dont feel bad if occasionally u find that things dont go your way after u make your decision. its up to oneself to make things right, so dont worry, i believe things will go right sooner or later.

sam you can do it. JIA YOU !

Sam Wong said...

I read all the tags twice, including those not shown.

Tonight's still cold.

But all things will come to past.

I appreciate your opinions.

mm said...

i'm late. hope u mged to locate wisdom's home :) it's natural to waver, some people hv v soft ears while some hv hard ones. no matter wat u say, it jus goes past them. they are stubborn n fixated in their own beliefs. pros n cons. it's alright to struggle esp if it's a decision dat matters. some people like to play devil's advocate to make sure dat u hv really seriously tot thru the whole thing and can back up ure decision. irritating (very!) but it's w gd intentions. stay strong n warm! :)

Sam Wong said...

You're not late MM.. I believe we've met before right? Maybe my memory's bad.

mm said...

ure memory is not bad at all, we've met b4 but i m not wisdom :P hv a good rest b4 tmrw's perf!